So many people today just throw around the word love. It's just a shameful game because they don’t realize how much it affects people.
Donot beg someone to stay in your life. The begged love, requested love never last long. It's not about leaving it alone but it has to when it hurts. The parental love, family love never dies a painful death because it's a unconditional love where it has no beginning nor ending. We cannot feel it unless we get separates, when mother beats and chase out of home but after sometime there is special food or sth prepared on the table by her or after sometimes she seems following you and when she cannot see you or find you are not there anymore she starts calling you telling that she will give a chocolate although you are old enough but her tearful eyes are still young. But the love given by someone you begged or your own love what we usually say puppy love will be like a water in a blade of grasses "no guarantee will it dry or fall". If he or she (lover) say a small amount of word it hurts like a something big that cannot be expressed. It hurts like as if stone fallen over your toes. It hurts like a hell of things dumped in it or over you. They can say I hate you but have you ever heard that your unconditional lovers saying that although they beats scolds and do whatever but after few tears fallen they will again hug you.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones so that when we finally meet that right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Don’t be sad or down thrown when people rejected you because good things are rejected almost all the time by the people who cannot afford you. Rejection doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have. Regard rejections because it's an important foot steps in your life long journey, to get successful and achieve your destiny. Getting discouraged from rejections is being self weakened, rather take rejections as a challenge. Only human rejects and their rejections can be gods plan to make you brave and unyielding.
Rejection gives you more power, strength and energy to push forward and enduring ecstatic memories. Play with it, rejection is part of the life game and you are there for season, reason and lifetime where each rejection brings you or takes you closer to the reality
Regard rejection because it makes you stronger and stronger, braver and braver and finally several rejections build you the confidence to face perfectly your destiny as true rejection helps you to reach your goals. Never accept the rejection unless you are rejected and plan to not repeat it again.
Now guard your heart from people who say or talk about don’t hurt me don’t hurt me because, you know what they are going into staying with you. Don’t try to talk with other on loving you, calling you, coming to see you, staying attached to you, rather hang up the ring. when people can walk away from you let them walk because your destiny is not tied with the person who walked away from you, your heart.
Just because someone told you that they loved you and didn’t mean it doesn’t mean that love doesn’t exist, it's just because you believe them and it wasn’t true.
It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t believe in love. You are rejected by someone who doesn’t know how to love you so it hurts you. Don’t write off love just because someone didn’t know how to understand which one it is we are able to reciprocate.
Relationship is like a bow and arrow.
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